RELATIONSHIP TICKLE, DONT JUST FEEL IT SHOW IT

 

Some people wonder why i love my bestie and co owner of this blog Olajumoke Tinuoye so much but what they forget to do is thank God for her awesomeness. she inspires me in many ways more than the ordinary. i remember her pitching to me that day in front of my hostel in Unilag telling me how she thinks i should try out to write professionally and how she kept encouraging me to try out for WOW magazine opening that night in January 2011. she is also the reason you can read this piece today under the tag name isyberry blog.i guess we all need a motivator around us yeah!! hehehe
well it turned out to be a blessing as God blessed me with an Editor with outmost understanding and a friend Olanshile in one person. with his permission, will post some of my write ups for wow magazine here and if you feel inspired please let me know oo ehn ehn!!! read my first piece below

There’s no better season to talk about showing love than Valentine’s. There is pretty much love in everyone’s life, if you pay enough attention. So why not let those loved one know you love and care for them? And let them know often too.

First you have to be sure of what you feel. Love, lust or infatuation? You need to understand your feelings before you can convince anyone else of what you feel. Ask yourself these questions: Do I really love him/her? Am I merely lusting for his/her body?

Second, even though ladies love attention and would want you to flatter them at certain times, does this depict the three powerful words that can turn lives around? Take away all the flattery and attention. Take away the good looks and answer this question: is he/she still attractive to me? I’m sure when you do, you will find it easier to define what you feel.

That said, showing love to those who deserve it is an art. When you know if it’s real, or maybe pure enough to be shown, you also need to know how to show it.

Be Yourself
Don’t play the role of someone you are not. Don’t act like the clichéd actors you see in the movies. Play your own cards and dance to your own music when it comes to showing your love
Actions Before Words
Let your actions and behaviour depict your love. Sometimes we search for the right words to show our love, especially when they are not supported by prior behaviour. Are you claiming to love him or her? Of course anyone could do that, and with ease too. So the better path would be from actions to words. When there’s need for words to be heard, speak, but from the heart.

For the concluding part of this article, click HERE